So there's no easy way to go about this but...
As I was browsing through facebook I came across one of my close friends... from a long time ago. I then began to reminisce about the old times that we shared and the memories that we made. Then comes the thoughts about what had happend. "I don't know, we just grew up and grew apart I guess." That seems to be the only generic answer to these types of things. I'm kind of in the mood to strike up a conversation with this person once again.
Funny because this particular friend that I'm talking about was the one who told me that bonds never really die. That was about two years ago. Either way, it just got me thinking about everyone who's been apart of my past and how they've help build the person I am today. How and why we grew apart is always a different story for everyone, but it's more understood than most. It is fun though, making the ones that have the time, come out and hang around me. Usually the whole conversations based around remember when's and what's new. It's such a different feeling whenever you're around an old friend. It feels please but at the same time it feels different. Probably, most likely because you're different and you're seeing this person at a different stage of their lives and you yourself is no exception to that rule. Blah blah blah blah and more technical/analytical shit.
Uhm... No excuses, Just actions. I can't wait to see all my friends again, Past or Present. Hopefully the world is small enough for me to find them again.
Errr. My head is a little messed up over this and I did feel a little heartbroken when I was browsing through facebook. Truth is, I do miss all my older friends. I miss the times we shared and how it felt like we'd be friends forever. It still feels that way. And it's more true than you think, bonds never really do die. To have such an effect as to come across someone's picture and just get hit with all these memories of things. That definitely means something and it's something worth holding onto.
So, I'll see you when I see you.
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i definitely agree with your friend there that "bonds never die".. i have a similar situation with a friend of mine. we don't really see each other that much, we don't have the same friends, we hardly talk that often.. but whenever we do see each other or talk, its like the same you know? like months and/or years hasnt passed since i last spoke to my friend. and its times like those that make the bond so strong to me. like it doesnt get awkward and you're not struggling to find the next topic to talk about.
ReplyDeletethis is a pretty long comment lol, but basically what i wanted to say was every person that we meet has a purpose in our life, whether it be big or small, and i really believe that the bond/s that you create with them are the works of God. =) ok sorry that was like a novel. but i hope it made sense.. im half awake right now =P